Give It A Break

Give It A Break

We are very neat people, both of us, and because of that we could be tidying and doing projects every second of every day. Failing miserably at connecting relationally we would be organized and task driven but then what is the point of that? I mean really? What is the point? The fact that my counters [...]

Creating Emotional Health in Your Relationship

Creating Emotional Health in Your Relationship

According to Manslow's hierarchy there are nine top emotional needs that every human being needs in order to manage life well. The top nine are, security, volition, attention, emotional connection, connection to the community, privacy, a sense of status, a sense of achievement, and meaning. If we are low in any of these areas we [...]

Too Much Drinking

Too Much Drinking

The holiday's can be so much fun!! They can also encompass too much of a good thing. I believe in moderation in almost all things. Too much sleep, your lazy. Too much sugar; you're a glutton. Too much exercise; your obsessed. Too much of extended family; you loose relationships (Or secretly wish you could have [...]

Findind Rest

Findind Rest

Rest is something I am not good at. Truth be told I don't think anyone is great at it. Lots of people may argue that point with me. Saying they are great at throwing on the PJ's and binge watching tv for days on in while eating Doritos. Some will tell me that they can sleep [...]

Detox

Detox

This topic is something that many people have become very opinionated and strong on. I want to be clear. These are my thoughts and what has worked for me. For me the detoxifying life has become a term that is part of my lifestyle. Not a diet. For me I detox regularly from many things and [...]

Max Out Monday

Max Out Monday

Your Monday is so important!!  How you handle the start - can actually transform your entire life! How you choose to max out the first of your literal week gives you the drive, momentum, and purpose of where you’ll get to and where you want to go.  It creates the higher performing life that so [...]

Spring Cleaning

Spring Cleaning

We recently moved. I loved it. Well, actually I hated the moving part and the stepping further away from my friends part and the changing of bills part and I still have to change my address on my driver's license. I loved a certain part of it. Purging. I am a professional purger. I get [...]

Give Yourself A Break

Give Yourself A Break

First let me just say that this “how to”  is a “me too” post. It’s a “How Too”. LOL. Today we are talking about compassion. I have had the beautiful privilege of recently walking out giving myself a break and having personal compassion! Life experience in this area has been truly one of the best [...]