Routines that Fail

Routines that Fail

Americans statically take less vacation than our European counterparts and yet are not more active. But thats not what I'm talking about here.. What are the routines that anyone no matter how much yoga or $$ you have will burn you out and cause relationship sabotage? On the flip side of a chaotic routine you have the mundane. The automatic and even boring. This is where you fall asleep at the wheel of life, and dare I say, the spark of passion dies. Think Covid-19. with zero shifts of routine, schedule or even scenery for months on end. People were going psychologically nuts from it. there is data to prove it. so what do you do?

Time Expert

Time Expert

My son's favorite super hero is The Flash. Everything faster is better in his mind. He runs whenever he can. The "Tank" was his nick name as a toddler, not because he was huge but because he would bulldoze over everything at breakneck speeds. His teacher's say his favorite thing right now is to finish [...]

Friday Free Draw

Friday Free Draw

I came home from a work trip to find hand picked flowers and colored pictures of little tiny fashion dolls with hearts and flowers on it. Giant yellow suns with slashes of yellow streaming out of the paper. Inside each (yes - there was more than one) 8×11 folded paper were notes of love and [...]

A Day for Rest

A Day for Rest

The topic of rest and a day off was just discussed a few short months ago in our small group. It is amazing to me how many people loved the concept of taking a longer more initial break and then as a whole everyone everywhere was forced to do so! In our season of social [...]

Time Away

Time Away

When's the last time you truly got away... and I don't just mean heading out for a weekend trip (although those quick getaways are sometimes just what the doctor ordered)... I'm talking about phone silence, email abstinence, abstaining from chores, relishing in late breakfasts over mimosas, long quiet walks, getting lost in a good book, [...]

Give It A Break

Give It A Break

We are very neat people, both of us, and because of that we could be tidying and doing projects every second of every day. Failing miserably at connecting relationally we would be organized and task driven but then what is the point of that? I mean really? What is the point? The fact that my counters [...]