Transformation

Transformation

We all shift and transform in life. It is a fact. You transform into a youth from a child and an adult from there. What people don't realize is that your brain can actual shift from month to month. And we often do not account for adults transformations and growth. And in these shifting seasons [...]

Ying and Yang

Ying and Yang

Just last week I had a conversation with someone where they were trying there very darn-est to stay up beat, positive and "glass half full" about a really challenging situation. And the more they tried, the harder it was. Sometimes instead of saying the upside it is saying the downside that re-centers you.This is where I decided to give you one of my very best personal tactics when you have really hard situations.

Routines that Fail

Routines that Fail

Americans statically take less vacation than our European counterparts and yet are not more active. But thats not what I'm talking about here.. What are the routines that anyone no matter how much yoga or $$ you have will burn you out and cause relationship sabotage? On the flip side of a chaotic routine you have the mundane. The automatic and even boring. This is where you fall asleep at the wheel of life, and dare I say, the spark of passion dies. Think Covid-19. with zero shifts of routine, schedule or even scenery for months on end. People were going psychologically nuts from it. there is data to prove it. so what do you do?

Lazy Laundry

Lazy Laundry

I personally do between 9-11 loads of Laundry depending on the week. This is for a family of four! The average American household does between 8-10 loads of laundry a week according to a google search, so I am right there in the zone as I am sure you are too. This translates to about [...]

When to Leave, when you’ve been taught to STAY

When to Leave, when you’ve been taught to STAY

In a "cancel society" it is easy to shut people, organizations, and differing ideas out in the name of "our health". Giving people an "out" on thinking differently, pushing through hard, loving our spouses over divorcing, and choosing church over our couches. So I want to be very clear when tackling this topic. Does the Bible talk about walking away and if it does when do we do it?

Are We?

Are We?

Are we? This question has served my family well over the years. It has been a shining star to light our path and a pillar for many if not all large decisions in our family unit. Are we kind? YES! Are we people who push on the play ground because someone pushed us? Never Ever! [...]

SOLO

SOLO

My daughter is a solo performer in the art and sport of figure skating. This terrifies me. It seems lonely and vulnerable in ways I wouldn't dream of doing myself. To be a solo performer means no one is on the ice with her. There is no hiding behind the strength of another. There is [...]