The Unhurried Life

The Unhurried Life

Hurrying has its place. I thought it meant efficiency. And the more I hurry the more I can do in this short period of time we all get on this blue planet. In true emergencies, speed matters. We rush toward safety. We act quickly to protect, to help, to respond. Urgency is appropriate when something [...]

ZEAL: The Quiet Fire That Changes Everything

ZEAL: The Quiet Fire That Changes Everything

Every personality test Iโ€™ve ever taken puts the word zeal somewhere near the top for me. Wholehearted. Driven. Purpose-centered. Itโ€™s almost funny how consistent it isโ€”this theme of having a big, bright internal fire. I am passionate. But hereโ€™s the truth no test captures: Even the most zealous person gets tired. Especially in December. Between [...]

Correcting Kids

Correcting Kids

When a Child Corrects You: Accountability, Respect, and Grace Recently, a child corrected me. I work with kids for a living so this is not a new thing for me. As the old saying goes " Kids say the darn'est things". But then after this initial incident my own kid corrected an adult and I [...]

Ying and Yang

Ying and Yang

Just last week I had a conversation with someone where they were trying there very darn-est to stay up beat, positive and "glass half full" about a really challenging situation. And the more they tried, the harder it was. Sometimes instead of saying the upside it is saying the downside that re-centers you.This is where I decided to give you one of my very best personal tactics when you have really hard situations.